People dont see you anymore.
Youre not as significant as when youre young.
He, too, relates to feeling invisible at his age.
ABC’s ‘The Golden Bachelorette’ stars Joan Vassos.Brian Bowen Smith/Disney
He looks so young, he looks like hes in his forties.
It shocked me to hear that he felt that way.
So many people DMed me and messaged me and said, You verbalized the way Ive been feeling forever.
And when Jonathan said it, it was just another person that reinforced that.
Then, after only being married for three months, Turner and Nist announced they were getting divorced.
As if dating on national TV wasnt enough.
I did feel extra pressure, honestly.
He formed strong connections with people and he fell in love.
She says she had no idea what to expect.
I was a little worried that maybe men werent going to apply to this, she says.
It was a full-circle moment for Vassos.
I remembered how terrified I was when I was in the limo, Vassos says.
I think about older men and how fragile they are when it comes to their feelings.
And they are such good friends to each other.
That happens on night one.
They bond in the mansion and they support each other on their emotional journeys.
They are the story, honestly.
I am a side note.
Theyre trying really hard.
