There were no clear boundaries, no clear rules.

And it kind of all blew up in their faces.

The drama first went viral in 2022 after Paul announced that she would be separating from her husband.

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No one is innocent, Paul said.

Everyone has hooked up with everyone.

Words like sinner or unholy are frequent regulars.)

Unlike strict non-monogamy or polyamory, swinging is often a couple-related dynamic, meaning partners share partners together.

And I think thats exactly what the #MomTok scandal is.

And I just think thats a story that people just love to jump on.

What are you guys into?

What are your rules?

What are your boundaries?

And I dont think people get that.

Swingers are big on protection and consent and STD testing.

People take it seriously, says Candice.

So to see it portrayed in a scandalous way is a bit upsetting.

To us, thats not what this lifestyle is supposed to be about.

Swinging is professionals, adults, all consensual, and all on the same page.

So every time I see the [#MomTok swingers], it irks me.

[Cheating] can happen, Lacy says.