Last week, the DJ spoke toRolling Stonebackstage at theU.S.

Open FinalsFan Fest, and dished some advice for young women interested in becoming a DJ.

For any girl thats looking to DJ, the boys can be mean.

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They are going to be mean, she toldRolling Stones Green Room.

You shouldnt let anyone ever get you down.

Especially not a boy.

She quickly learned how to DJ and was booked for her first gig: her high schools homecoming.

I started doing frat parties in Cincinnati, where Im from …

I did my first club at 18 and the rest is history, she said.

She shared that shes working with some amazing artists that listeners probably know.

Im always looking at the crowd.

Im on the fly.

You have to be to be super engaged with your audience honestly, she said.

You have to be able to switch on the fly.